My advice if you struggle with dating in real life you should avoid dating apps all together I never struggled hooking up with girls in either real life or on dating apps when I was single but I often found myself a little disappointed when girls I considered to be in my league didn’t bat an eye at me not always the case but it’s more often than not. If you are overweight, have a lot of acne or are otherwise considered to be unattractive DO NOT use tinder it will only further damage your confidence which will only hold you back more in the dating scene. I struggled with confidence sometimes when the hot girl I matched with didn’t text me back because I was one of 50 guys messaging her at any given time and I literally had at least 1500 likes on this app if not more the last time I checked if you are below average looking approach women in real life might be really nerve racking at first but you will be happier in the end I can guarantee it the person I’m with now and I met IRL and I think the basis of our relationship is much better because of it good luck out there fellas I hope this helped.
Such an interesting phenomena I’ve been placed at around a 7/10 or an 8/10 on the attractiveness scale depending on who you ask but I got a lot of sewer trolls liking me. I totally concur with the notion that women on tinders standards are absurdly high. I have also noticed it really depends on your location in areas like Austin, Knoxville, and Athens ie college towns I not only got a significantly larger percentage of likes but the quality of my matches were much higher. But in Dallas where I’m originally from the dating scene tends to be older so you either get girls who are home from school or girls that I wouldn’t dream of getting with on my drunkest night.
I remember I first got tinder my last year of highschool and got 99+ matches within a week or so and I got tinder gold very briefly just to see who all was liking me and I was astounded to see that most if not all them were well below my standards but having used the app on and off for 2 years or so at this point I’d say the distribution for an above average looking guy tends to be 60/40 because a lot of attractive girls consider themselves to be above using dating apps and the ones that are on there are really looking for 6 foot tall guys who are at least a universal 9 or above but that always tends to be objective.
Hello,hope y'all doin good, i came to Quora to share my strange story , a very weird one , a story when luck smiled at me ,maybe u will enjoy it , let's begin,have fun...
A year ago ,I was a real porn addicted(btw I was 18) ,but never had sex before, I don't have a gf I didn't try to find one even ,always thinking to go to find a sex worker but then I just don't , everyday watching different bodies getting fucked and everyday enjoying.
One day, I was watching porn, a big ass lady with big boobs ,just after seeing her the image of my female cousin poped in my mind, (let's introduce her : she's 35 years old , very big ass , nice boobs ,not very big but nice,always wearing tight clothes , she's divorced ) and I thought of me fucking her ,I never had sexual desires for her but now I do days went by and when I met her I was so horny ,I couldn't stay with the family cz my penis was clearly erected , I realized this is my first time I get horny for one of my family ,it not illegal in my country.well to make a long story short( if u want details just text me I will tell u 😊),I decided to give her signs that I want to fuck her,finally I decided to have sex and with my cousin , I thought it is the best beggining for me, i started touching her when I came across her in a narrow place , make her feel my hard cock when we hug , I thought it will hard and I will be ashamed but no , I felt nothing and she said nothing , probably she thought it was by mistake,anyways, I decided then to talk with her about sex, waited for her to be alone in a room and talk with her, I confessed everything about me watching porn and addicted..etc,she said it's normal and u are growing up and u must have sex,well at that time I was like whaaat????? Well I didn't control myself and asked her for sex ( horny like I Ve never been before) she said that she will think Abt it ,2 weeka went by then she called me ,telling that she reserved a room in a hotel and we meet tonight ,we met,and bruuhh, sex is great , I mean, I had to find a pirstitue ,what I was waiting for to have such a feeling ????, I will never forget that night, I started kissing her she was kissing hard ,she misses sex so bad , she sucked my dick and swallowed my semen ,I felt I'm in a dream , then when fucked ,her ass was very big and the anus was open ,didn't struggle to get my hard cock inside it , she was obviously missing sex , she was shouting ,fuck me yh fuck me , I go fast after every word until I cum , we did that 3 times , then we went to her pussy , using condoms I fucked her so hard the moans were higher , everything was perfect ,in the end I asked her to lick her body , licked pussy ,ass, boobs,then she sucked my cock until we sleeped ,all I know that she was dirty ,well before even having sex with her I knew she is an open minded woman , and a woman that looks that she donesnt know anything , but she knows everything, but never expected having sex with her ,well she was horny and that helped...but no one of us regretted that sex ever..
We still have sex from time to time ,and I started having sex with sex workers , joining threesomes..etc
If u want pics of her text me.
